Setting Priorities in Life - How it changed my Life miraculously ,Why I changed my Priorities and why you should too

Desires dictate our priorities, priorities shape our choices, and choices determine our actions.” 
― Dallin H. Oaks

It is not a daily increase, but a daily decrease. Hack away at the inessentials.” 
― Bruce Lee

Time management is an oxymoron. Time is beyond our control, and the clock keeps ticking regardless of how we lead our lives. Priority management is the answer to maximizing the time we have.”

– John C Maxwell, best-selling author, speaker, & consultant on Leadership

Recently I attended Mr Sushil Prasade session on Setting Priorities in Life in Mumbai.It was an eye opener session for me and it indeed changed my life and I could really learn my Priorities.

What are your priorities right now ?

How to set priorities - 

Do fewer $10/hr tasks and more $100/hr tasks

I learned this one from my mentors. One of them really focusses on this, He’s always pushing his staff, and especially managers to, “focus on the $100/hr tasks and spend less time on the $10/hr tasks.”

This means avoiding being bogged down by too many admin tasks, filing things, building your own framework in excel when an app could do it out of the box, or avoiding delegating work when you should. And those $100/hr tasks are those high-skill tasks that really add value, whether that be investing in relationships with clients, exploring new business opportunities, or spending more time on a consultation’s complex problems.

My mentor has grown a business to millions in revenue by offloading those $10/hr tasks to a central office and letting his field staff focus on the high value services they provide clients.  The central office experiences cost efficiencies by consolidating the work and his field staff are happy to not have to deal with those tasks.

How it applies to managers: Bring this mindset to any kind of work you do.  Challenge yourself to consider which parts of your work (and your team) are $100/hr tasks, and which are lower value and should be delegated or eliminated.  

A secret of Silicon Valley is how much work is actually done offshore and outsourced. It turns out, people can solve some problems (like identifying whether a photo is inappropriate) both better and cheaper than engineers writing and perfecting code to do it. What $10/hr work can you offload from yourself or your team?

Life is as simple as these three questions: What do I want? Why do I want it? And, how will I achieve it?” 
― Shannon L. Alder

The weird thing is that the more efficient, on task, on goal you are with your time, the more energy you have. Working with no traction, or for that matter simply wasting a day, does not relax you, it drains you.//
Strange as it may seem, when you work a daily plan in pursuit of your written goals that flow from your mission statement born of your vision for living your dreams, you are energized after a tough long day.” 
― Dave Ramsey, EntreLeadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches

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Book to Read In December - Planning and Preparing for the New Year 2016 - Book “6 Months to 6 Figures By Peter Voogd

“6 Months to 6 Figures”

Lessons I learned  from this book -

The 4 W’s to Lifestyle Satisfaction:

What do you do? —What’s the possibility and upside? Is the opportunity endless? Is it something you enjoy doing? Does it really inspire and help people? Are you in 100% control of your schedule, income, and advancement? Most people say they love what they do, but deep down, if they could do anything they wanted, they would do something else. Please don't settle. If you REALLY love what you do, you’ll never work a day in your life. I am glad I found what I love and everyday it makes me feel happy. I write,I read, I empower, I travel and I feel very content at the end of the day. What are you doing lately ?


Who do you do it with? —Who is leading you? Search for likeminded people in your life, it is exhausting to be a lion amongst sheeps. If you are a Lion find your pride, don't settle for sheeps. You will never be happy or content. Find the ones who inspire you. Think !!! Are your relations inspiring, and do they challenge you? The times I’ve thrived the most were because of the mentors and leaders guiding me. They lived the lifestyle I wanted, they had the amazing relationships I wanted, and they practiced what they preached. Do you love and appreciate those you associate with daily? The most important lesson that I learned in my life after years of people pleasing is this that Most people hate what they do, hate their boss, and hate their co-workers. Life is too short to have toxic people around you.

When do you do it, and when you don’t? —Do you have flexibility? When I started my company, I had no idea how I will continue it. I wanted to choose the best suitable career path for myself where I felt happy and I don't have to compromise my personal life as well.Can you design your business to fit around your lifestyle. Ultimately, you are in control of your own future and can take it as big and as far as you want to grow. You need the real passion to pull your potential out. Are you up before your alarm because you’re so excited to take on your day or do you sleep in dreading getting up? Gary Vaynerchuk  if you hate what you do, even a small percentage, it’s time for a change.

Where you do work? —Can you work from home or while you’re traveling? I am blessed and thankful to god that I was already into media and mass communication. So Public Speaking was not that difficult option for me to choose. But according to research Public Speaking is higher then  phobia of death. Many people cannot handle it. It suited me and my lifestyle, I choose my passion what about you ? Can you move if you’re tired of where you are living? Do you have an inspiring environment that sparks your creativity and genius? This is why becoming a lifestyle entrepreneur is difficult for many of us. But I have always been a firm believer of WHERE THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY.I am confidently guessing you have goals to increase your income. Maybe you're sick of making the same income or you can’t stand the feeling of financially struggling. 


What is the difference between those who are thriving and those who aren’t?

Well, we all have the same twenty-four hours in a day, so they must be doing something different with their time, right? They must have a better perspective about money and how it’s earned. If you are not satisfied with your income, let me give you some straight- forward tactical tips that can be used right away. 

Stop doing what you’re doing:

The first thing you must do if you are dissatisfied is stop doing what you’ve been doing, because that’s what has created your current reality. We’ve all heard the famous quote by Albert Einstein, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.”What’s great about life and opportunity is the chance to completely change the story and direction overnight. Regardless of your past decisions, you’re always one decision away from making the right one. 

Don’t let money define you: Your self-worth has nothing to do with your finances. Whether you have a negative bank account or $10 million, your confidence should never waiver. If anything, your confidence should increase when you are stressed, and this stress should motivate you to NEVER feel that way again.

 Being wealthy is a state of mind, but so is being broke. Who you are defines you, not what you possess.

Start prioritizing your profits: When you set up your weekly schedule, make sure you start with income producing activities.


Twenty percent of your activities account for 80% of your income. Figure out what those critical-inch activities are, and do more of them. Really think about the top two or three things you need to do to create more income. Now put those in your schedule consistently so you assure you are creating income. Constantly ask yourself if what you’re doing is profitable, and focus on doing what you should versus what you feel.

Also, remember: impact drives income. Start placing a higher value on your time: Time is more valuable than money. You can always get more money, but you can never get more time. Is it possible to become twice as valuable, and make twice as much money in the same amount of  time? Of course it is. There is nothing more valuable than time invested wisely. We all have the same 24 hours. It’s what you do with them that determines everything.


Start Planning for your new year in a progressive and constructive way, You will end up being more happy and proud of your achievements.

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Take care,
Love and Hugs,
Priyanka

Indian Wedding Season and Preparations - How to Organise your Look, Plan and Prepare for the wedding Event

Mehandi Laga ke Rakhna - Doli Saja ke Rakhna

Get your bangles, lenghas, churidhars, bindhis and your Hrithik Roshan dance steps ready cause Indian wedding season begins :)

As this amazing wedding season begins, and I just returned from Lucknow where I attended my friends wedding, I thought Aren't we all getting our Lehengas, Cocktail Dresses and Sarees ready for this amazing wedding season. So many of us are preparing to attend so many parties starting from Diwali , this entire season will last till new year. Mild winters, Tikkas and Kebabs to cherish. All of us are definitely preparing dancing steps and make up, hair do to look our best and be our best.

Now, who doesn’t love Indian weddings? The music, the food, the drinks, and the uncles with their “screw the light bulb” and “pet the dog” (whatever that saying is) awkward dance moves. This is the time when each girl shines. She looks the best she’s ever looked and she’s going to dance like she’s the next Madhuri Dixit, this is OUR time girls! Who knows, maybe you’ll even find the man of your dreams at one of these weddings.

Okay, now before you get ahead of yourself and run to the wedding hall before the bride and groom even get there, 

 Meet new people. What better place to meet new people than at a wedding. Yes, its super convenient to just sit with the people you know, but after the initial hi, hello, Namastes, go bounce from table to table! Be a social butterfly, this is the perfect time to be one. You never know who you’re going to meet. Most of the time, these are people you will see again at some event or hang out. Make yourself known. 

Next move on to basics and essentials -


As I have been a super planner when it comes to any event I make sure my every assemble is perfect , not to mention when you dress up for these occasions you are constantly getting clicked so why not prepare in advance. Most of the events have Sangeet, Mehandi and wedding not to mention cocktail parties are also an important part of Indian wedding season.

As I mentioned earlier ,me being a super planner I had my Itinerary planned almost a month before,and I started my preparations almost 3 months before. When It comes to preparing and planning  I follow First things First rule.

I firstly researched on my day to day schedule :

1st day was Sagai - So for that I got custom made Salwaar Suit, I was wearing a Pista Green colour Suit with Golden work and I accessorised it with my pearl necklace and pearl earrings.

2nd Day was Sangeet - For which I purchased Alia Bhatt inspired Red Lehenga for the Look and I accessorised it with simple Jhumkis.

3rd Day was Cricket Match , Wedding -

For Cricket Match - I was wearing Black dress from Only and White VERO MODA BIKER JACKET. Esprit black clutch and Black and White sandals.

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Wedding - I was wearing my red Kanjeevaram Saree which I purchased from Jai laxmi Store, Trivandrum. And I wore it with my Golden Jewellery .

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After pairing each attire, now you need to prepare for Casual Look as well, As we were in Lucknow and I really wanted to explore the city of nawabs , I decided to pack 2 Jumpsuits and a pair of jeans with 2 tops.

Not to forget , when you are travelling, always keep extra pair of intimates. You never know when you may need them. So here I was all prepared to explore Lucknow delicacies,chikankari and a gala wedding.

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You can easily get wedding Planner Checklists online these days, and little planning saves you a lot of stress on such big events. I was relaxed and well planned,thats why I could enjoy every minute of my Lucknow trip.


Here I am sharing with you one of the planning checklist. You can customise it accordingly. This list is basically for the bride,but I felt anyone who is preparing can take a few tips from it. Nothing wrong in that !!!

Rules of Wedding Season Preparations

1. Assemble your Looks according to the events.

2. Research the location and other facilities,you might be needing like Make up artist and Hair stylist.


For my Make up I booked Celebrity Beauty Parlour 

- http://www.bigindianwedding.com/Company/Lucknow/Central-Lucknow/Jopling-Road/Health-and-Beauty/Beauty-salons/The-Celebrity-H-Beauty-Parlor/22630/

    

3. Keep Thank you cards ready, I always carry my personal Thank you cards , you must always thank your host for organising the event.

Here's my Thank you for Inviting on your wedding Note

Mazel Tov!! 

What an incredible week of festivities and celebrations for your wedding.  Indeed, the royal wedding had everything. It was so wonderful to be included in your celebrations, to have the chance to stay with you at Taj Lucknow,  and to be part of your inner circle for the week.  I can't thank you enough for the fabulous excuse to travel to Lucknow  and be with you and your families.  I wish you the most fantastic honeymoon - safe travels back to Mumbai  - all your friends will be waiting there to continue celebrating with you as you begin the next phase of your lives together.  Looking forward to many more joyous occasions with you and wishing you and Pallavi our congratulations on your marriage.

With love."

Dr.Priyanka and Major Raakesh Krishnan




4. Keep your suitcase perfectly packed day wise, I pack my suitcase according to days - like day 1 - what to wear list etc


5. Keep accessories and jewelry in a jewellery box,velvet one. They are safe and they dont break.


6. Research looks and photo poses and keep them filed. I researched on my hair do almost a month 
before and when the stylist asked me what look i want I showed her the photograph.


7. If possible hire your own cab, we all know how hectic it becomes to depend on the hosting family.

 I always insist that I will make my own travel arrangements,this ways you are free to travel and explore places, also if someone needs help,you can give them.


8.Always browse trip advisor for famous food joints.


9. Keep your checklist ready,discuss your attire and your spouse attire 


10. Pack everything perfectly, Book transport and Hotel reservations, and your all set to enjoy.


Last but not the least - 

Enjoy Yourself!

You were invited to share in the joy of the newlywed couple, so enjoy every minute of it! Savor the food, mingle with new people, and most importantly, dance the night away! Nothing will make the couple happier than knowing that their guests had a great time.

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Till then
Take Care
Love,
Priyanka

Interview with an Army Wife - Mrs. Sipika Narvekar - Odissi Classical Dancer , Wife and a Mother

Tell me a little about yourself. Your profile

 I am Sipika Narvekar married to an army officer. We are proud parents to our two year old boy Aarav.

I am an alumni of D.P.S Mathura road and have graduated from Delhi University in commerce stream. Currently pursuing B.ed from Jammu University. I am a professional classical dancer, a Phd in Odissi dance. I am a dancer, performer, choreographer and an instructor.

 More importantly i am a homemaker and my hobbies include cooking, baking, driving, clicking pictures and getting myself clicked. 

·        Pls share your achievements with us, eg -  Award, Certificate, Experiences where you won an championships, any experience with sports. If you a player. Done any charity etc

I have won many National competition in dance and drama and have participated in numerous cultural festivals and programs all over india. I have also got opportunity to share stage with renowned Gurus of Odissi dance like-Mrs. Geeta Mahalik, Mrs. Ipsita Bahoora, Mrs. Sharon lowen and many more. As a student i was actively involved in all cultural activities and fest. I was dance director in my school and was also awarded excellency award .

·        What were the biggest adjustments you had to make regarding your relationship, family and schedule during deployment?

I haven't yet actually stayed away from my husband since our marriage but i do dread the unknown feeling. Though there have been short stints of separation when he is out on exercises. during these phases d adjustment that i end up making is packing up my house when moving to my in-laws/parents place and resetting up d same when moving back..Toughest part is when he is going to board that train and me knowing that we would be meeting only after couple of months. 

What is the hardest part about being an army wife

Yet to see one. May be separation 

 From whom do you get support while he’s gone?

 Family and friends 

What have you learned about yourself and your relationship throughout the process of deployment? Do you think your relationship became stronger because of it?

Yes definitely we grow closer with every stint of separation and value each other even  more. But that doesn't imply that i would want to be separated with him so as to grow closer..i would prefer doing it while staying with him..

What advice would you give other military spouses in your position?

I would just say enjoy every moment and be proud of what you are part of.

Share how can anyone being an army wife lookout for prospering career options, what are the best career options available ?

First of all priorities  must be clear. If someone is career oriented and is ready to stay away from their husbands then they have lots of options but if your priority is to stay with your husband and you wanna work then I feel teaching is the best option or they can work in some bank because school and banks are bound to be present every where or if someone is creative so they can start up their own business..Since 3-4 years i have left everything as i was very busy with my baby but  looking  forward to continue taking dance programs and travel.. Side by side I am planing to take dance classes or work as a teacher..

This is our today's Army Wife story. Pls subscribe to get inspired and motivated. You can also mail me at priyankas.secret@gmail.

In case you are an army wife pls contact me so that I can take your story to the ones who are waiting for an inspiration.

Take Care,

Love and Hugs,

Priyanka

How I made Rs. 3,90,000 in just 30 minutes

My Journey as the Suitcase Entrepreneur and How I earned Rs. 3,90,000 / - in just 30 min

"FORTUNE REWARDS THOSE WHO ARE BRAVE - SO STOP MAKING EXCUSES AND GET TO WORK. YOUR DREAMS ARE WAITING FOR THEIR DESTINY"

Dr. Priyanka Krishnan

My parents thought I'm crazy, I told them my desire of working like a nomad. I wanted to work for myself and this wasn't a suitable option for a married woman,whose husband is in the Indian Army. Usually it was expected for me to become a school teacher. And technically I should have been. But I wasn't satisfied. 

I started one coaching program and I was investing in myself. I was also reading one Incredible  book just to motivate me during these days when I felt extremely low, and It's incredible how that Coaching Program and this book changed my life. I not only started my career. I came to know about what I'm actually passionate about. I also earned 3,90,000/- in just 30 min. Which for my mother was a 2 years income of a school teacher.

Dear Reader, if you really wanna know how I did it. I can tell you that. More over I'll guide you through and like me even you can be free. You don't have to take anybody's orders and You can do whatever you want, you can travel to all the places you love. 

I research a lot, and I planned every thing properly. I share a Very well quote by Jim Rohn here :

Most of us are dying to do many things, we know we are talented, we have resources, we have money but we don't know how to achieve this. Dear Reader, If you feel you have potential, if you feel you have that burning desire to do something of your own and take charge of your life. I am ready to guide you through.

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