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ADAPTABILITY

One has to learn from every second of their life. Every moment is a lesson. When we vision a dreamy success in any sphere of our life, It indeed is never so easy as it seems. As they say grass is always greener on the other side. But real art is focusing on your own grass and if it's not greener one needs to add good fertilizers,check the soil,water and give them proper sunshine. It also means you have to clean up what is rotten material.

I have never been a person who ever loved gardening but indeed it has taught me a lot. Most important lesson is the way how one small seed, if given proper conditions give you 100% returns.I was staying in Pune , Mumbai , Raipur and the lifestyle I had was more of buying from big bazaar and easy day for my daily needs.And here I am gardening my own coriander , lettuce, rocket leaves etc etc. I love making salads and I love cooking. But I must say when I started planting my own food and harvesting, that feeling is divine.

Every act in our life is absolutely like growing your own produce. From our achievements to our friendships from our careers to our lives. If you observe carefully it's all similar. You grow with every experience and adapt to your comfort zone. Some plants can handle strong and harsh weather, some plants wash away.

If you are a kind of person who learns and perceives their life in a positive manner, you are just like me. I have always made an effort to look at every situation in a positive nature. It makes life more simple. I like to stay away from the inferiority drama, there is so much of negativity and I repulse that. Observe how much your body reacts to unnecessary conversations. Talks which have nothing to do with progress and complaining attitude how do you respond to that. Can you take it ?

When time comes in your life when you feel lonely and miserable, THINK how can you adapt. ADAPTABILITY is a very important skill.Many of us don't realise it but to survive one must adapt to the given situation in life.

Watch out that are you comfortable with these qualities in you, If yes then sooner or later like a fruitful see you will definitely result fruitful outcomes. 

1. TEACHABLE - When any problem occurs in your life, are you looking forward to learn from it? If you the one who can see challenges as a growing experience you will succeed, but if you look challenges a problem that cannot be solved , chances are where ever you are, you will proceed towards your downfall.

2. EMOTIONALLY SECURE -  I learned this from world renowned author of RICH DAD AND POOR DAD , Robert Kiyosaki when I was in his seminar. He said one has to be very emotionally secure. If you are not emotionally secure , you will not focus on main ,real and actual agendas of life, you might have a wandering mind and you will end up having no trustworthy relations in life.

Being an Army Wife I observe my husband , No matter what problems come in front of him he is very confident and absolutely emotionally secure. This one skill I learned from my husband Raakesh. He doesn't get nervous and he is absolutely ready fro any change. He takes ownership of every situation in his life.

3. CREATIVITY - When difficult times come, creative people find a way. If you are in a situation where you know that in near future you might face some tough choices. Try to be a planner. Use your passion to nurture during these times of crisis. If you are under land,sun,sky water - YOC CAN SURVIVE ANYTHING IF YOU ARE CREATIVE.

4. SERVICE MINDED -  One has to be very service minded. Cause people who are selfish and self centered are digging their own graves. Observe and look around your self do you find people who are selfish happy. The thing is if you are service minded and are ready to serve you think about others first and then yourself. This makes you indeed a very responsible person, because you take responsibility of others and are ready to give and contribute.

Learn from each and every person around you, learn from every situation. Like all the matters in your life it's the way you take charge matter, How you fight back matters, How you survive matters. And most important how you help others matters.

This was my way of fighting back through my circumstances in life. If you have your ways ,do comment back and subscribe to my blog for such updates about love,life and happiness.

Take Care,

Priyanka